Okay, first things first. My final days in the Pacific:
Saggy Butt capris
SSS Lesson #5: Photos matter.
Having to look at photos of yourself, rather than just the mirror, definitely changes self-perception. In Me-Made-May, I looked at the camera as something objective. It seriously revolutionized the way I viewed myself: I had some distance in which to view the shape of my body, cuts that flattered the shape of my body, and colors against my skin.
But in SSS I'm beginning to see it as subjective. Since I frequently quickly snapped a shot before running out the door, these are by no means the most flattering snapshots, especially this bunch. Does that make me perceive the outfit, then, as less flattering? Or when I have one of my sisters behind the camera, or beside me, egging me on to smile, does my response somehow color my outfit more positively? And overall, as a static image, you can't see the way I move and lounge and how good I feel.
But it's a wonderful partner on this journey, regardless. What role has the camera played in your journey, for Self-Stitched-September or blogging overall?

So here's my task: Ten things you didn't know about me and five bloggers I'd like to pass on the award to.
#1: I once got run over by a canoe. I'm from Hawaii; these things happen.
#2: I have two sisters, but they each only have one (which is me, obviously).
NL 6965, top (with my niece, who's not wearing the pretty white dress
my sis and I made for her)
#3: Snake blood is not, by far, the grossest thing I've ever consumed, but perhaps the strangest.
#4: I'm supposed to be finishing a novel. So one of these days I'll have to start sewing less.
#4: I'm supposed to be finishing a novel. So one of these days I'll have to start sewing less.
#5: I wish I spent more time doing things that make me laugh with every fiber in my being. Both swing dancing and sledding are on that list.
#6: I long for books that I can fall in love with.
#6: I long for books that I can fall in love with.
#7: Movies are my number-one mindless entertainment. Everything else in my life seems to require so much consideration, that if I can watch people kill each other or kiss, I'm delighted.
#8: According to one of my sisters, all women are one of the Sex and the City gals. And, according to her, I'm "so Miranda."
#9: In my head, I'm a marathon runner. And I can sing and dance. Sadly, it's not reality. Short-attention span. Lack of discipline.
#10: If I wasn't too chickenshit (or: unattached), I'd join the Peace Corps, or something equally service-oriented and ballsy. A guy once told me about how he was peed on by bats every night for his first two months of service in Costa Rica and I replied wistfully, "Cool."
And now five *beautiful bloggers*. I can't keep track of who's been tagged, so here's five beautiful blogs I've been digging recently:
Alessa of Farbenfreude. A Berlin med student who sews!
Welsh Pixie, who has a beautiful dog and so feels me on body-shape woes.
Scruffy Badger Time. A partner in knit-sewing (and check out her purple Beignet skirt!)
Knotty Gnome, who recently whipped up an LBD that jives with my aesthetic: basic, versatile, lovely.
Charlotte of L'Atelier. She just kills me with loveliness.
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Aaaw, thanks! I do feel you, I really really do.
ReplyDeleteRegarding the camera, I find I have the opposite relationship with the camera, possibly because I'm stubborn and don't want to know the truth or possibly because I'm using my phone, have no tripod and the angles I photograph at are deeply deeply unflattering. It's anybody's guess ;)
I have been trying to be a little more creative with my photographs, particularly as I've always loved photography and did complete a short course whilst living in Sydney (although my favourite thing about the course was my lifts to the college on my housemate's motorbike) but, alas, until I get a better camera I think me and photographs are not speaking.
And, yay!, another novel writer with a short attention span and no discipline! Woo! ;)
In there with the novel-writing and short attention span (or maybe it's just inability to finish anything).
ReplyDeleteCameras are tricksy things. On the one hand, they can show you stuff with a persepctive you just can't get in the mirror. On the other hand, what they show is just one slice of reality. You can have cute pictures of horrible pieces, and fugly pictures of cute pieces. For comparison, check out the tabloids---candid snapshots of celebrities vs. glam photoshoots. (By the way, I think candid shots of celebs are the only thing tabloids are good for. Ugh!) How's the pants alteration going? :)
i love the short attention span comment, i'm totally there...and the have 3 other things i should be finishing all at the same time feeling!
ReplyDeleteas for the camera, i agree with tanitisis. i spent the weekend taking pics (trying to figure out angles etc) and what i'd see in the mirror was not necessarily what i saw from the camera (same pose, same everything...look in mirror, freeze and shoot). i haven't figured this out yet. denial maybe?? :)
Coo - I'm blushing - thank you :-)
ReplyDeleteI've found the whole SSS thing a big awakening in the effort I put into taking pictures. Having previously snapped into a mirror with an iPhone with arms at funny angles, I now know where my self timer is. I too have a different perspective on what suits me now, plus have seen how scruffy (he he)I might have left the house for work had it not been for some photo truths. I can't engage with the self timer yet - I have yet to build a relationship - my more human poses happen when my guy is behind the lens & encourages silliness!
I love your t shirt dress! I want one.
ReplyDeleteI've noticed that since I started blogging about sewing, I use my photos as a tool. They really help me see things I don't see in the mirror. On another note, I must get a tripod. My husband is getting tired of being my photographer :).
Great post Ali, I linked to it on my blog. Hope that is ok.
ReplyDeleteI have found I tend to be negative about my own image in my photos which when I step back and think about it is quite interesting. I do struggle to find a good spot with light and no clutter. Your photos from your visit home are fab, you look happy and relaxed in them. The shelley dress is looking especially good!
Ah - photos. They can be so uplifting but also very frustrating. I thought getting a tripod would help me, but getting good shots in a hurry is, for me, impossible with or without a tripod. The best pics are always taken by my darling, or when I have LOTS of time (and a tripod...).
ReplyDeleteBut, they are a great way of documenting what I actually make. Regardless of the photos quality, I get a document of what I have been making, and I can see progress, and I can see a slow, but certain, change of awareness of things like color and style.
Awww, Ali, thanks for the nomination! *hugs*
ReplyDeleteGood points about photography. I've been taking photographs for a while and I've even done some portrait photography for friends (although I'm far from being even semi-professional) so usually I expect a certain level of quality from pictures I take. What seems to work out well when taking pictures of others doesn't seamlessly translate to self-portraits, though, not even when shooting in front of a mirror - and I don't really know why... Also, a lot of my SSS pics were taken by friends or BF, most of which have really no idea about composition, flattering angles etc... I think you can both conceal and accentuate "flaws" by shooting in a flattering or unflattering angle.
I've come to think that the reality is probably somewhere between the photograph and what I see in the mirror. Also, if my hips look a little bit broader because of a gathered skirt, most people will probably still look at my face and not really notice, even if it screams at me in a head-on photograph.
Thank you so much for the lovely comment, you made my day. I will try to play the game and pass the award to bloggers I like.
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Charlotte
Hi Ali! I posted about the award and passed it on to five blogs. Hope you like the selection ! And thanks again :D
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